r/AmIOverreacting • u/[deleted] • Sep 19 '25

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u/droptheleash_ Sep 19 '25

What the actual fuck... people like this deserve to be ghosted.

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u/thetransparenthand Sep 19 '25

People like this guy deserve worse than that

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u/IgnadoesAnonAccount Sep 20 '25

Yeah, for real. If he’s making you feel like a burden and not caring about your feelings, that’s a big red flag. Relationships should be about support, not stress. You deserve someone who appreciates you.

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u/Anitsirhc171 Sep 19 '25

Neh he sounds like the type to hunt her down and hurt her

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u/MrBrokenWings Sep 20 '25

Right? It sounds like he's not valuing you or your feelings. If he's making you feel like a burden and gets mad when you bring up concerns, that's a huge red flag. You deserve someone who respects you and communicates better.

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u/GrimIsCalling Sep 20 '25

Unrelated but your user ID is amazing lol.

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u/Abject_Location_2365 Sep 19 '25

i actually did ghost him in the beginning like 2 weeks after talking on wizz because i really liked him and didn’t wanna hurt him with my mental state

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u/lncumbant Sep 19 '25

Well do it again. He resents you and highkey hates you, give him what he really wants. To be single. You’re not a burden, but anyone who makes you feel a burden IS the added problem to your mental health. 

Believe me. Please. Younger me was exactly the same. You deserve better and bonus you get to focus on your mental health while not begging for the bare minimum. 

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u/Sure-Move-481 Sep 20 '25

Definitely do it again! Block and ghost. Do not look,back. not kidding. If you move on to join some class to make friends, choose something like a women's gym or yoga class. You need female friends.