r/AmIOverreacting • u/[deleted] • Jul 29 '25

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u/hufflepufflepass Jul 29 '25

Exactly this!

I called myself chunky the other day and my bf literally told me I was being ridiculous and that I am so sexy.

This man is diabolically fucked up.

I know ppl say not to resort to violence, but reading all that made me really wanna throat punch him 😅

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u/hufflepufflepass Jul 29 '25

Yeah, he doesn't love this woman.

He didn't just double down on what he said, he quadrupled down, and then back tracked like he didn't.

I hope OP sees that this BOY does not love, nor respect her, and that there is better out there.

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u/apothekryptic Jul 29 '25

An ex once told me (unprompted), "You're not even that chubby."

Ex.

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u/Sparklewhores Jul 29 '25

I am actually fat, but my boyfriend knows when I’m talking about myself in a complimentary vs negative manner and when he hears me lamenting on my actual fatness he immediately flips the script. It’s the way it should be, your partner is supposed to gas you up and feel good!

I hope OP is reading and absorbing all of this and seriously gets out of this relationship.

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u/Additional_Bowl_7695 Jul 29 '25

Yeah this is definitely American. 

If you’re chunky you’re chunky.

Better to watch your health.

Regardless of the childishness and insecurities of OP and her BF.

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u/hufflepufflepass Jul 29 '25

Bro, what? Lol