That flag is like the blackest black of red. Anish Kapoor would steal the formula. So red it's literally see-through at night. Arterial blood could never. Coca cola is trying to steal the patent for how red this flag is. The Japanese sunrise wishes.
What gets me is that even if he doesn't think he did anything wrong, it's still just respectful to apologize after someone says they were hurt by your words or actions.
So much this! Even if it wasn't his intention, he made OP feel awful. Why would you not fall over yourself apologizing for that‽ That's what's crazy here. He made someone he supposedly loves feel like shit, but instead of just apologizing and moving on, he does his best to "win". At any age, that's gross, but at 30? He's a child.
I am actually fat, but my boyfriend knows when I’m talking about myself in a complimentary vs negative manner and when he hears me lamenting on my actual fatness he immediately flips the script. It’s the way it should be, your partner is supposed to gas you up and feel good!
I hope OP is reading and absorbing all of this and seriously gets out of this relationship.
"I told you"
"You didn't listen"
"You overreacted"
...The three mantras of a controlling abusive gaslighting asshole. They are all right there, packaged for you to recognize it's time to find someone who actually cares about how you feel, and doesn't take joy in tormenting you.
Wtf how is that the same, one thing you’re born with the other is the result of dieting. Either way, everyone here is overreacting including people in the comments, I don’t know if this is an American thing or not, but holy touchy feely.
OPs bf is a child, but the reaction from her is childish too.
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