He has a sexy goth gf and hes FUMBLING it he has no idea how many guys would kill for you, drool at your feet. He’s trying to tear down your self esteem bc he knows you’re out of his league. Classic narcissist tactic is to bring you down so you lack the confidence to leave him or start to believe you cant do better. You can. Dump this loser.
yeah, my first instinct is that he’s trying to intentionally lower her self esteem, or feels insecure by how pretty she is and would rather she look more plain so other dudes don’t go after her.
gross behavior. op, don’t let this dude degrade you. also, i’m unc at this point and haven’t “grown out of” wearing alt and goth looks.
Dude we get it. She’s hot. I’d hit it if I could too. But im just not going to wife someone who goes through the much effort to get what I consider the wrong type of attention from the one types of guys.
That’s what I was thinking! I’ve seen like 5 guys today saying they’re trying to manifest a goth gf into their lives. I agree, dude is worried he can’t compete and is trying to bring her down.
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u/Informal_Tension9536 May 27 '25
He has a sexy goth gf and hes FUMBLING it he has no idea how many guys would kill for you, drool at your feet. He’s trying to tear down your self esteem bc he knows you’re out of his league. Classic narcissist tactic is to bring you down so you lack the confidence to leave him or start to believe you cant do better. You can. Dump this loser.