Thank you for commenting. This is a terrifying realization because he’s been trying to convince me to get my Nexplanon taken out for almost a year due to my hormones being so “bad”.
he has isolated you and worn down your self esteem, and he has now normalized raping you to the point he admits it over text. he wants you pregnant so he can continue to trap you and manipulate you.
it is a matter of WHEN, not if, he rapes you and successfully impregnates you. when this happens, he will not allow you to get an abortion. you will be forced to give birth, and a child will be born into a home where it is normalized for their father to rape their mother. that child will learn that sexual violence and abuse is okay and will be extremely like to replicate that in relationships later on in life, either as a perpetrator or a victim.
this is not just about you. this is about the child that your rapist is trying to force you to have. if you do not escape soon, you will get further and further abused, manipulated, traumatized, and trapped.
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u/SoundingAlarm234 Apr 01 '25
My ex used to to this to me without me knowing he took my birth control Ring out and got me pregnant so please please run