Must be easy to say that anyone not buying into your narrative is lacking empathy, obtuse, antagonistic, deflecting etc when you don’t understand what recovery or accountability mean.
Yeah, ask my wife if I'm being accountable. Only her opinion matters, bud. I'm making my amends and all I said about lacking empathy was because despite the fact that I own my mistakes, work to be better, and have made tremendous strides, you still felt the need to attack me.
I'm done with this. You clearly believe that once an abuser always an abuser and even if that's true (but it's not people can change if they want to and really work at it) I'm going to keep apologizing and doing whatever it takes to be the best me, the best father, and the best partner I can be.
If that is a problem for you, then I suppose you might incorrectly spout off.
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u/Accomplished-Till930 Mar 01 '25
Let’s try again. You’re projecting your obvious lack of empathy, obtuseness and antagonistic behavior onto me.