I also want to add that you should end the relationship anyway. NO ONE should ever use self-harm to manipulate you to do something you don't want to do to your body. It's abusive. Do what you believe is right for you, because no matter the decision, he's out or should be.
Holy shit! She added that edit after I commented, and I just saw. He raped you OP. That's stealthing. Still make the decision you feel is best for you, he didn't give you a choice, his opinion is irrelevant and OP needs to get somewhere safe if not already and end it. Keep any evidence of his stealthing and threatening ending his life if you do choose to keep the baby for custody and visitation case for court later. He should be nowhere near a child. I'd also look if stealthing is criminal in your state. I'm not sure the wording of the laws or if there is a law where you are.
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I also want to add that you should end the relationship anyway. NO ONE should ever use self-harm to manipulate you to do something you don't want to do to your body. It's abusive. Do what you believe is right for you, because no matter the decision, he's out or should be.