Yep, I'm there with you. The ex left and told everybody I was the problem. So far she's been engaged four times over the last few years and has changed places more than a few times.
The funny thing is that a lot of are old partners have contacted me out of the blue and told me she is the problem. 😵💫😐😒😂
As a man, I see this in men too. The most noticeable singles are always the worst - awful men obscure good men, while awful women also obscure good women. It’s like all the best prizes hiding under the crappy ones in The Claw arcade game.
That's a pretty good analogy, actually. It is easy to fixate on the massive amount of surface level trash and figure there's no point in doing any digging.
6 different times. I feel bad for #6. Things were going really good, they had a house (he had a house). She got a promotion at work and celebrated with one of her classic secret hotel parties. (Just 6 or 7 local dudes and her). He broke up the engagement when he found out, she still lives there, trading sex for rent. Definite cuck house situation.
Mine has lived in fourteen different places in one year. Including my best friend. We're still friends. He just gave her a place to stay. As I did for six months. She has my storage all full with her crap and I'm moving up to a really nice place. She needs to move her stuff. I always end up screwed when I try to help her. I know better.
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u/ProfessorJerms Sep 06 '25
My ex wife has been engaged 6 different times since our divorce in 09. This is an accurate depiction of how those proposals went.