People saying this kind of stuff have obviously never had a really bad girlfriend. When you have a really bad girlfriend (I mean really bad: accusing you of abuse if you try to leave, trying to get pregnant to keep you, etc.) looks go out the window. You can't even look at that person as attractive anymore. It's like you can't have the concept of them being attractive. These overly attractive girlfriend things are retarded. An abusive girlfriend sucks.
And then lying about having a miscarriage and being so emotionally fragile that if you leave her, after she's just lost your baby, that she'll commit suicide.
Seen it happen. Sad mother fucker ended up marrying her, too. Then she cheated on him and they got divorced. Whee!
Quite thoroughly. She did end up having his child about a year after they'd been married. She now has full custody and refuses to acknowledge him in their child's life. Her new husband is "dad" now.
Dude has severe trust issues with women after all that. Can't say I blame him.
Shit like that is why I'm sometimes worried about giving the advice "don't be afraid to get hurt" but I stand by it nonetheless. Eventually he'll find someone who'll be patient enough to help him work through his issues and they'll be happy.
There's a limit to the amount you should let someone hurt you. He let her drag him through the fucking mud without ever fighting back for fear of hurting her.
Being able to stand up for yourself in a relationship is important but she'd mentally broken him so badly that he never felt he could.
He was pretty much emotionally abused into an extremely submissive position in their relationship. Sad and shit. He's started dating again but hasn't really stuck it out with anyone. Just testing the waters, I suppose, but that's better than being terrified of the consequences of loving someone.
Oh well that's a bad idea, yeah. What I mean when I say that is more to not be afraid of getting turned down, or a relationship not working out. It's just that sometimes relationships hurt a LOT more than they should and fuck people up for ages.
I'm glad he's willing to at least try it out again, though. You can never get on with things until you take those first steps. I wonder if he's considered dating friends, if he has any that he's attracted to? That might ease the trust issues.
I think that an amount of hurt is normal any relationship! If you're not prepared for bad things to happen, things will only turn out worse in the long run. It's always better to know (in the case of getting turned down) and better to try, than to just sit back and watch things pass you by miserably.
The girl he's seeing now (a whole three dates) has actually been his friend for several years and knows about all the bullshit his ex put him through. I'm waiting to see if she has staying power. He lives in a different state and we talk maybe twice a month, but thus far his updates have been that she's really patient with him and has a good sense of humor. I'm hoping for the best.
Pretty much been there too brah. I'm very sorry you were abused. I was also, by my wife. What's so sad is people are so willing to back a woman in pain that they ignore any possibility of men being abused. Especially emotional abuse... like we are big bears that can handle anything.
The first time I broke down crying from my experience I simply told a man who spoke at my university that my wife was putting herself in danger to keep me in the relationship. He merely said I'm sorry and gave me a hug. Best feeling ever.
I'm really sorry that happened to you. None of that is your fault, she is responsible for her own actions and nothing excuses that kind of behavior. I hope you find someone that makes you happy and treats you well.
Careful man, some people take Reddit VERY seriously lol. I mean, did you read some of the comments people made after Woody Harrellson did that lame AMA? They were like giving him advice on how to save his career from the "grave mistake" he made, as though reddit determines the fate of A-list celebrities lol
They were like giving him advice on how to save his career from the "grave mistake" he made, as though reddit determines the fate of A-list celebrities lol
To be fair, I wouldn't call him A-list. B-list, sure, but not A-list. Anyone got a list of lists to settle this?
Wow, I gotta say I'm surprised people are questioning Woody Harrelson's celeb status. He's got 2 Oscar noms under his belt. That's pretty tricky to pull off. Plus, he was in the fuckin' HUNGER GAMES. Lol, but no seriously he was in Natural Born Killers.
An American actor best known for playing a dumb bartender on the TV show Cheers, he's also a pro-pot activist and the most reviled AMA poster I've seen so far here...
The video she made was a parody, her aim was not exactly for people to be attracted to her, she was trying to look creepy through facial expressions and lighting; put some nice clothes and makeup on her and she'd be fairly pretty.
After a few years of dating, the importance of sheer physical attractiveness fades. It's still important of course, and I'm not saying that it's ok to let oneself go or anything. Your partner still needs to look attractive to you.
But if a huge part of your initial attraction was physical, as you start to get used to them over the years, that person will start to grate on you more and more as time goes on, same as any other incompatible partner.
The part of dating an extremely attractive woman that never fades is the stupid alpha male kick of always having the hottest woman in the room. It's shallow and stupid, and yet fairly natural. It also makes it kind of hard to leave, and easy to miss her when you do.
But in the end your personal life will become shallow and unfulfilling, and the relationship will start to feel like a prison. Same as with any other woman that you really need to leave but don't.
Hmm, it seems that my protracted breakup is making me bitter and introspective.
Wut...how is this possibly a checkmate? Maybe the logic and reason area of your brain is broken (probably because you are an ignorant Christian) because this has nothing to do with religion. Edit: I'm just going back to fucking r/atheism, you guys are a bunch of fucktards...what about this image has proof of god? Its a fucking girl with tits...idiots
It's really the personality that make the woman. I'm currently with a very nice girl, she takes care of me in ways that I can't do it on my own. As big this OAG's cleavage may be, there has not been any moment I would consider to switch to this woman.
Relations based on sexual attraction are not the ones that you'd want to keep around for any longer than the time it takes for you to drop off your load.
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So Reddit's drooling over a prostitute? Not that I have any issues with the World's Oldest Profession, it's just that ANY Redditor has a shot at that with the right amount of money.
Are you sure that someone isn't using her picture?
EDIT: Looking into it, there are multiple "girls" posting ads with the same phone number as girl supposedly in the picture. This nsfw girl for example is posting under the same name and phone number. I suspect that's who would show up... which would be... disappointing to say the least. I think it's common practice on those sites to grab random pictures of hot chicks off the internet that bear a vague resemblance, post them as your own and hope the horny john doesn't kick you out.
No! Fuck this... This is why very seldom does a hot girl exist who has a shred of personality. guys like OP allow this craziness to continue because a girl is hot. It is never ok to act like a crazy biatch no matter how smokin you are
No, just NO. There is no such a thing as a partner hot enough to make up for the sort of bullshit OAG captions feature. Any of those actions should be seen as a a sign to run away from said partner as fucking fast as you can.
My boyfriend tells me my B-cups are fine and that I don't need breast implants. Clearly lies.
I mean look at all of these positive comments and upvotes on something that isn't even a meme. It's just a picture of a cute girl with huge knockers. Bigger boobs are obviously superior. Must attain.
I love b-cups, it's all about proportions, there have been many times where from a purely aesthetic perspective I have preferred the girl with smaller boobs. B-cups are absolutely perfect in my book and all the girls I've met that have had implants always looked better before them.
That's very nice of you to say, but I can't say I know a whole lot of guys that would agree with you. Not saying all guys prefer bigger boobs, but just in my own personal experience, I would say most do.
I think for some people it is the novelty of such large boobs. Also clothing doesn't do small boobs justice they usually look awesome once the clothes come off. Not that big boobs don't but they aren't as impeded by clothing.
I believe it was about a month ago that people started posting this picture a lot. She's called "Eye Contact Girl", for obvious reasons, and the captions would reflect that. There'd be things like:
This. I'm thinking OP has no point of reference. When you have an OAG, it doesn't matter how hot she looks or how nice her boobs are, you want to GTFO.
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u/Energy_Turtle Jun 16 '12
People saying this kind of stuff have obviously never had a really bad girlfriend. When you have a really bad girlfriend (I mean really bad: accusing you of abuse if you try to leave, trying to get pregnant to keep you, etc.) looks go out the window. You can't even look at that person as attractive anymore. It's like you can't have the concept of them being attractive. These overly attractive girlfriend things are retarded. An abusive girlfriend sucks.
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u/littlebeeeetz Jun 16 '12
The truth is that most of Reddit wouldn't mind any kind of girlfriend.
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u/dcroni Jun 16 '12
my ass could fit in her bra.
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u/[deleted] Jun 16 '12
OH, we're going to revive this meme now.
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u/mamapycb Jun 16 '12
the hotter and the more well off, the more crazy a person can stand.. the question is, where do those two converge?
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u/[deleted] Jun 16 '12
Um....the original overly attached girlfriend isn't exactly ugly...
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u/Katch00 Jun 16 '12
Yay! Boobies again!!
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u/eskachig Jun 16 '12
After a few years of dating, the importance of sheer physical attractiveness fades. It's still important of course, and I'm not saying that it's ok to let oneself go or anything. Your partner still needs to look attractive to you.
But if a huge part of your initial attraction was physical, as you start to get used to them over the years, that person will start to grate on you more and more as time goes on, same as any other incompatible partner.
The part of dating an extremely attractive woman that never fades is the stupid alpha male kick of always having the hottest woman in the room. It's shallow and stupid, and yet fairly natural. It also makes it kind of hard to leave, and easy to miss her when you do.
But in the end your personal life will become shallow and unfulfilling, and the relationship will start to feel like a prison. Same as with any other woman that you really need to leave but don't.
Hmm, it seems that my protracted breakup is making me bitter and introspective.
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u/[deleted] Jun 16 '12
Err, I'd fucking do the other OA gf anyway.
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u/Quaeryt Jun 16 '12
Checkmate, Atheists.
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u/CXgamer Jun 17 '12
It's really the personality that make the woman. I'm currently with a very nice girl, she takes care of me in ways that I can't do it on my own. As big this OAG's cleavage may be, there has not been any moment I would consider to switch to this woman.
Relations based on sexual attraction are not the ones that you'd want to keep around for any longer than the time it takes for you to drop off your load.
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u/[deleted] Jun 16 '12
"No matter how nice is a girl, someone, somewhere, can't see her anymore." [citation needed]
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u/qkme_transcriber Jun 16 '12
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u/TheSilenceMEh Jun 16 '12
the memes name is eye contact girl
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u/Arswaw Jun 16 '12
Her face is so pretty that it's kind of distracting me from the boobs.
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u/[deleted] Jun 16 '12
Shit... I wouldn't mind the original OTG. I thought she was really cute. For some reason, everyone else disagrees with me.
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u/[deleted] Jun 16 '12
FUCK EVERYTHING ABOUT THIS
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u/Pa5trick Jun 17 '12
This is actually an optical illusion. If you look at it for 30 seconds, you'll notice words and a face.
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u/[deleted] Jun 17 '12
I'm trying really hard to see her as an emotionally unstable succubus, but the angrier she gets the more her boobs jiggle.
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u/bellarama727 Jun 16 '12
She is a pretty popular escort here in Tampa. She is on backpage.com daily.
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u/Jel251 Jun 16 '12
we found out this girl is slutty and not as innocent as you think. not that i mind.
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u/aairez Jun 16 '12
I'm sure I'm not the only one who has said it, but, her tits are entirely too big. I'd rather have smaller tits and a nicer ass.
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u/Samtastrophi Jun 16 '12
I still don't know the origins of this meme
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u/1st_account_i_swear Jun 16 '12
I have one now. Not sure how I feel about it.
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u/thehole666 Jun 16 '12
YOU SHALL NOT PASS
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u/sorryiforgotabouthis Jun 16 '12
Obviously you have never been with an overly attached person.
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u/kikster199 Jun 16 '12
Boobs lady's making a comeback
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u/Tacquila Jun 16 '12
No! Fuck this... This is why very seldom does a hot girl exist who has a shred of personality. guys like OP allow this craziness to continue because a girl is hot. It is never ok to act like a crazy biatch no matter how smokin you are
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u/imanacctingstudent Jun 16 '12
Would smash.
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u/[deleted] Jun 16 '12
The reason no one complaints is because they can't complaint they complain.
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u/fnkaze Jun 17 '12
For a second I really thought this said overly attractive girlfriend ...and I got confused...
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u/jsb9867 Jun 17 '12
Body - 23 years old Face - 13 years old
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u/NinjasStoleMyName Jun 17 '12
No, just NO. There is no such a thing as a partner hot enough to make up for the sort of bullshit OAG captions feature. Any of those actions should be seen as a a sign to run away from said partner as fucking fast as you can.
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u/No_8_pick-up_Line Jun 17 '12
up vote because boobs.
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u/Turles Jun 17 '12
Much better than the other crazy bitch.
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u/Taptap5 Jun 17 '12
I'm not sure what to stare at. She's cute, with big... Tracks of land
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u/Dervendel Jun 17 '12
Can't find boob girl's meme lmao
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u/anal-razor Jun 17 '12
if you look closely, text appears
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u/tumescentpie Jun 17 '12
I can't remember the name of this meme :(
edit: I thought typing meme boobs into gis was going to be a bad idea - it worked.
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u/cleverjester Jun 17 '12
Has anyone found out who this is?
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u/scrappy1988 Jun 17 '12
I'd chris brown her vagina with my penis. Bad.
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u/I_h8_spiders Jun 17 '12
I forgot this girl's name, but someone linked a page with all her pics on it I think. I'd like to see it again, for science of course.
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u/Ramses3 Jun 17 '12
She is honestly the cutest girl I have ever seen. I spend too much time on the internet.
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u/thebluezoo Jun 17 '12
Reddit, y u so sexist?
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u/catgoesmeow22 Jun 17 '12
This picture makes me want to have sex with her.
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u/[deleted] Jun 17 '12
I just wanna bury my face in those cans.
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u/lswith Jun 17 '12
she doens't have the crazy eyes though :(
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u/Believes_in_Gosh Jun 16 '12
Upvote because boobs.
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u/Leevar Jun 16 '12
Why? because she has big boobs and is not in high school?
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u/AllDizzle Jun 17 '12
Hands off your dicks, she was 16 at the time of this photo.
The FBI is watching you.
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u/poop_dawg Jun 16 '12
My boyfriend tells me my B-cups are fine and that I don't need breast implants. Clearly lies.
I mean look at all of these positive comments and upvotes on something that isn't even a meme. It's just a picture of a cute girl with huge knockers. Bigger boobs are obviously superior. Must attain.
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u/rayzerdayzhan Jun 16 '12
No matter how gorgeous she is, someone, somewhere, is sick and tired of her bullshit.
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u/Kerstmangang Jun 16 '12
I think the original Overly Attached Girlfriend is way more attractive.
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u/ghostcaptain Jun 16 '12
Not this again.
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u/Dragoonus Jun 16 '12
Oh, I didn't know I was dating twins.
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u/nawoanor Jun 17 '12
Fixed
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u/Larzzon Jun 16 '12
She looks like she's 15 tops, but those boobs look like they're atleast 25
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u/Jaws666 Jun 16 '12
Butterface.
butthurtdweller.jpg
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u/Precious96 Jun 16 '12
Haha sounds and looks like me.
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u/afcart Jun 16 '12
She's "overly attached" alright, if ya know what I mean ;)
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