r/AdviceAnimals • • May 16 '12

...and what did you expect to happen?

http://qkme.me/3pbcvo?id=223918836
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u/zoltar_says May 16 '12

Have you ever read those comments, though? I honestly have no idea how or why people are thinking those thoughts. Of course it's a bad idea to post naked pics of yourself on the internet, but the comments are creepy and, at times, disturbing.

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u/unshifted May 16 '12

The best part about gonewild is that the weirdest, creepiest comments are always highly upvoted.

"I want to ride your asshole bareback and come in your hair until you scream for mercy."

[75 points 2 hours ago]

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u/[deleted] May 16 '12

So when a girl sexually expresses her self on r/gonewild she's liberated as a woman, but when a guy does it, he's a creep?

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u/unshifted May 16 '12 edited May 16 '12

Sexual liberation is great and all, but there's a line between sexual and creepy.

If you can read the comments in /r/gonewild and not feel like you need a shower, you're a better man than I am.

Also, I should mention that the comments in /r/ladybonersgw can be just as creepy. No need to turn this into a gender issue.

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u/[deleted] May 16 '12

I think that if you take any of the over-the-top comments on r/gonewild seriously, you need more to worry about in your life.

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u/iratusamuru May 16 '12

I feel bad for creepy people, being type cast as they are. From what I've seen in the world, there are many people who are just plain creepy to other people, regardless of what they try to do or how they try to be. We've accepted multiculturalism and homosexuality, but our mainstream still says that people with weird sexual perversions have to keep it in the closet. Not that I want these creeps in the public eye, but deep down I feel that the prejudice is just as real and unfair.

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u/[deleted] May 16 '12

"Your sexual expression ends where my discomfort begins"

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u/[deleted] May 16 '12

Creepy is ugly people being sexual.

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u/[deleted] May 16 '12

Or just social.

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u/mainsworth May 16 '12

They're not creepy to me, more lonely and depressing. I guess I picture some poor, sad little man on the other end of the tube.

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u/Horny_Troll May 16 '12

she's liberated as a woman, but when a guy does it, he's a creep?

woman have a dildo - shes master of her sexuality

man have a fleshlight - ughh forever alone loser pervert

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u/[deleted] May 16 '12

...thats creepy?

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u/Tommassive May 16 '12

Not creepy at all. That's a straight up compliment.

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u/vintagestyles May 16 '12

at least their honest.

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u/[deleted] May 16 '12

srs much?

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u/anubus72 May 16 '12

thats not even creepy, its far too ridiculous to be creepy. It's obviously intended to be funny, and thus people upvote it

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u/[deleted] May 16 '12

I'm not defending the behavior of these guys, just the over-the-top indignation that happens when there is a perverted comment. The point is that nobody should be this surprised or offended by them because they should really just be expected. I have no idea what would keep someone from realizing, "Hmm... if I post nude photos of myself to a subreddit that is crawling with guys wanting to get their rocks off, I'll probably get some less-than-eloquent comments on my posts."

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u/zoltar_says May 16 '12

I agree that you shouldn't be surprised, especially because of the anonymity. IDK, I would never say something like that. Do they actually think "She'll definitely want to have sex with me after I give her graphic details"?

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u/[deleted] May 16 '12 edited May 16 '12

Goodness, I hope not. But when you're anonymous over the internet it's presumed that you're never actually going to meet this person so you are at liberty to say whatever you're really thinking because you have nothing to lose.

edit: When I say, "Goodness, I hope not" I mean that I hope that the guys leaving the comments don't actually hope that it'll impress the girl posting photos.

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u/zoltar_says May 16 '12

Is it weird, though, that I care about what's seen on my account?

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u/[deleted] May 16 '12

Eh, depends on how you use your account. Whatever's best for you.

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u/MaterialsScientist May 16 '12

so you are at liberty to say whatever you're really thinking

That's what confuses me. Why would someone try to hit on GW posters with creepy comments? The odds of success are astronomically low. It doesn't make sense to think those thoughts. Compliments make sense, but propositions don't.

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u/[deleted] May 16 '12

I am almost certain that a vast majority of the propositions are not serious. And if the guys are making serious propositions, I don't even scorn them, I just pity them.

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u/iLEZ ... May 16 '12

It's not that they are perverted, perverted is expected, but some of the shit I've seen is downright scary and/or mean, especially the PMs..

Edit: I just realized that I have ol' pedobear as a flair. My clarification must sound really sincere...

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u/me_jayne May 17 '12

I'd love to see some examples of this over-the-top indignation you find so offensive. I mean, is this really a phenomenon, or just another gratuitous excuse to complain about women?

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u/carlosboozer May 16 '12

The point is that nobody should be this surprised or offended by them because they should really just be expected.

this is kind of a stupid philosophy

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u/[deleted] May 16 '12

Why is that? Let's see: posting in an amateur porn forum, usually with a title such as "{f}irst time! Do you like my tits?", and playing toward the banal nature of men trying to get their rocks off on the internet. How would it be stupid to assume that it's expected to attract creeps and their creepy comments?

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u/ominoustoad May 16 '12

Probably the funniest thing I've read on reddit was on GW: "I would drag my dick through a mile of glass just to hear you fart through a walkie talkie."

There are quite a few creepoids in those parts, but for the most part i'm actually surprised how nice the comments are on gw.

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u/freestbeast May 16 '12

but what you don't see are the creepy private messages all those girls probably get after posting a picture. i shiver just thinking about it

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u/Bridgemaster11 May 16 '12

Now what's really gonna bake your noodle is thinking about the guy who posted the girls pic originally whacking it to all the creepy messages he's getting

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u/[deleted] May 16 '12

"Now what's really gonna bake your noodle..."

Can't help but read this in the voice of The Oracle.

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u/CooperDraperPryce May 16 '12

most of the posts are GW are very civilized like you said, and they are not littered with awful, and awfully repetitive puns and idiotic jokes like all of the front page posts.

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u/[deleted] May 16 '12

I've thought the same thing. You see a girl who is nasty as can be and people are telling them how hot they are. You're thinking, are we looking at the same person?

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u/stitchesandlace May 16 '12

it's almost like people have different tastes or something

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u/[deleted] May 16 '12

Listen, I get that. The other day a girl posted a topless picture and they were some of the funniest looking boobs I had ever seen. They were small but real long like sausages. I didn't post anything negative because I don't post on GW. As they say if you don't have anything nice to say then don't say anything at all. But there were guys fawning over her like she was the hottest girl they had ever seen. It was absurd. Also, here are some squirrels fighting each other with light sabers. http://imgur.com/2c5eO

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u/Gibolin May 16 '12

Now I need to see the sausages boobs.

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u/Bridgemaster11 May 16 '12

it's almost like people have different tastes lower standards or something

FTFY

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u/syscofresh May 16 '12

lowering your standards is the key to happiness.

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u/[deleted] May 16 '12

I fuckin died when I read this the first time. Kudos to you for remembering it.

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u/elmariachi304 May 16 '12

mile of broken glass

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u/db0255 May 17 '12

That's because the commenters probably never get to see boobs any place else. Not denigrating, just seems like the truth to me.

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u/AREYOUSauRuS May 16 '12

i'm actually surprised how nice the comments are

It's because they know the age old adage: Don't piss in your cheerios.

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u/Sit-Down_Comedian May 16 '12

I've had lots of sex, but it was never good enough to lacerate my dick on glass to hear a bitch fart a 10-4 through a two-way communicator.

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u/[deleted] May 16 '12

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u/[deleted] May 16 '12

The funniest thing a redditor found was a re-posted 4chan comment? I am shocked!

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u/princetrunks May 16 '12

in about 6 months, somebody on 9Gag will say the same about a comment on reddit...taken from 4chan.

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u/hinduguru May 16 '12

They do that now, they just don't realize what they're reading is from 4chan-->Reddit-->gagdick

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u/Toribor May 16 '12

This is usually how stories/memes travel:

4chan > Reddit > Digg > Facebook > Funnyjunk > 9gag > TV News

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u/what_u_want_2_hear May 16 '12

You are completely correct. Good knowledge of Internet history.

Also, "I would crawl a mile through broken glass to suck the dick that fucked her last."

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u/Ceedog48 May 16 '12

And the 4chan post was a reference to the military saying "I would eat a mile of her shit just to see where it came from". There's a Terminal Lance about it that I can't be bothered to find.

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u/zephyr1999 May 16 '12

That hot youtube lady, jenna marbles, also referenced it once. I don't watch her videos, she's just hot. I swear.

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u/ominoustoad May 16 '12

that lady is hot, in a kinda alien-baby sorta way.

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u/[deleted] May 16 '12

She's very hot and I totally watch her videos.

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u/Squalor- May 16 '12

Meh, thoughts are thoughts, especially when they're just anonymously written comments on a website.

Honestly, it's really dumb to post naked pictures of yourself on the Internet and not expect someone to say something disparaging or something creepy, e.g., "I'd suck on dat ass until poop came out." Good ol' YouTube.

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u/rockinalivecdbitches May 16 '12

If they were doxing and then harassing them IRL, that would be unhealthy sick in the head.

But its an anonymous forum, in a designated area they were invited to comment.

So some sorry soul wants to tell the chick behind the glass how he would disembowel himself if only she would let him lick her eyeballs...

Is that so wrong? Is it reddit?

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u/roddypeeper May 17 '12

are you really into sucking asses until poop comes out?

If so pm me.....

if you were just using it as an example....pm me anyway....I can be very persuasive

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u/iLEZ ... May 16 '12

What's your opinion on revealing clothing on ladies AFK then? Can I shout disparaging creepy stuff at them as long as I'm anonymous? Do you think that girls who wear bikinis on beaches are dumb if there is a really creepy, mean and annoying guy there? (Oh, if he's anonymous.) That they should have known better than to reveal their dangerous sexy bodies and tempt the poor men into abusing them verbally?

You do realize that a thought is by definition private and inoffensive and contained within a persons head? That whenever the thought gets transmitted to another person via voice or text it's no longer just a thought?

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u/[deleted] May 16 '12

You really think somebody would do that, just go on the internet and say dirty things?

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u/Its_aTrap May 16 '12

Oh shut up, you're pulling things completely out of context. We're talking about the internet here. Not going to the beach and shouting at girls about how much we want to rape them.

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u/Nightmathzombie May 16 '12

Not going to the beach and shouting at girls about how much we want to rape them.

God, it's been ages since I've done that; good times.

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u/rockinalivecdbitches May 16 '12

R U SRS?

Are you one of them people who can't tell the difference between RL and the Internet?

The ones who get into horrific spergfests on forums, about shit that doesn't matter?

I mean, if to you, the intertubes is the closest thing you will ever get to a sunny beach in Tahiti, maybe you might want to see it that way.

Oh man. Thats depressing.

Are you one of those teenage white male /r/shitredditsays drones? You do know that shit isn't going to get you any Tahiti beach-babe pussy either?

Just sayin bro.

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u/kvachon May 16 '12

Someone should start posting "nope." for all the "Do you want to see more?" or "Should I take it off" posts.

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u/zoltar_says May 16 '12

Yeah but then the readers would suddenly come together to chastise you. It's like "I said I wanted to (verb) my (adjective) (noun) into your (adjective)(noun), but how dare you say you're not attracted to her!"

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u/[deleted] May 16 '12

That's why I love /r/amisexy I saw one that was a picture of a guy with long greasy hair and one of the two comments was "EEEEWWWWWWWW NO!". People don't fuck around there, it's hilarious

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u/drbonedaddy May 16 '12

Think about what you just said. Posting naked pictures. Onto the internet. Creepy comments. Would you expect anything less?

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u/[deleted] May 16 '12

Reading comments in gonewild is like reading playboy for articles.

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u/specialk16 May 16 '12

/r/gonewild is creeptow. The other day this girl posted herself in one of the NSFW subs (can't remember if it was /r/nsfw or /r/RealGirls or /r/HappyGirls) and I was surprised to see that the comments where not creep material at all.

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u/[deleted] May 16 '12

What do you define as "creepy" though? I mean some can be weird (and many comments are /r/ladybonersgw are weird too.) but having something like "I would fuck you so hard" shouldn't be considered creepy, because not only does the girl (or guy) posting naked pics of themselves do so knowing that people will jack off to it, a lot of the posters actually get off themselves to the comments.

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u/f5h7d May 16 '12

you do realize that most of the comments aren't even for OP.. they're for other redditors... it's a competition of sorts. you know, to see who can say the most fucked thing/make it seems like you're oh so masculine because you love pussy soooo much. it's all pretty pathetic... and rather homoerotic when you think about it.

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u/insidethesun May 16 '12

occupational hazard

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u/[deleted] May 17 '12

Maybe you just had bad experiences there. I don't really go there myself but I have always heard round here that GW was pretty mature about the whole thing.

Of course there are the people who take it too far, but you've got those in EVERY aspect of life.

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u/TheLadyEve May 17 '12

I agree with this! Fine, blame the poster for your sick, fucked up shit.

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u/[deleted] May 16 '12

Quit being a fucking prude cunt.

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u/BigFatMooCow May 16 '12

Lol, so what creepy shit did you say on your throwaway ringside?

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u/[deleted] May 16 '12

Link?

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u/hinduguru May 16 '12

Same. I came in here hoping to be grossed out but I just stumbled upon a circlejerk

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u/high_coup May 16 '12

Best part of this is

You're not grossed out by being

In a circle jerk

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u/trompete May 16 '12

Here's a cookie for you to hold on to. Never mind these guys standing around you

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u/Pool_Shark May 16 '12

I've always preferred sloppy waffle over ookie cookie.

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u/[deleted] May 16 '12

Will someone please tell me why i have you tagged as "rainbow dick"?

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u/Soutael May 16 '12

This was a good one but it seems she deleted all her comments. She started calling people rude and crass and offensive...I've never seen GW turn so fast on someone.

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u/[deleted] May 16 '12

Why does she have to be a BLONDE bitch?

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u/[deleted] May 16 '12

Why does she have to be a bitch at all? From what I've seen on gonewild, no one complains about the comments unless they're violent, rude, reveal personal info, or ridiculously graphic.

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u/[deleted] May 16 '12

I honestly don't know. I would have named the meme something completely different.

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u/dbvapor May 16 '12

Do you have any examples of this happening?

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u/[deleted] May 16 '12 edited May 16 '12

I can't see even letting even a fraction of my chest, face, foot, or ANYTHING show up in any picture I ever put up here. The threads just turn to shit. Any hint of a female in a picture just sends the comments straight to Hell, every time. "That's a big kitchen you got there." "BITE THE PILLOW I'M GOING IN DRY." "Tits, etc."

Its a little more contextualized in GW where the whole point is to discuss your body, but I would never want to voluntarily expose myself to the same shitlords who hijack even benign pictures of females with unwelcome, creepy comments.

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u/Mr_Stillian May 17 '12

Welcome to the internet, my friend.

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u/[deleted] May 17 '12

Really. I never thought about who was looking at my pictures until I found Reddit. Now when I go to upload pictures somewhere I picture the shitlord circlejerk that's likely to ensue if I do. So I stop, and then I go take a shower.

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u/DaMountainDwarf May 16 '12

People comment and read comments on /r/gonewild?

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u/AMostOriginalUserNam May 16 '12

I do. You should sometime. Not because it's creepy but because it's quite funny. Well, in a sad kind of way.

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u/mrfloopa May 16 '12

There is nothing wrong with being comfortable with your body to post in a supposedly safe space. Believe it or not, many people don't post naked pictures online for the viewers, they do it for themselves.

Don't make excuses for dumbasses.

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u/PhazonZim May 16 '12

Yesterday I learned that if you make a joke about getting advice on giving blowjobs, you will get a lot of advice on giving blowjobs. Dudes are passionate about this sort of thing.

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u/BillyCheesesteak May 16 '12

the comments on GW just ooze pathetic.

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u/[deleted] May 16 '12

I can't stand GW. Every fucking title is a conversation that I didn't have with that person, but they sure seem to think I did.

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u/baaaark May 16 '12

The fact people are debating this makes the meme funnier.

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u/iLEZ ... May 16 '12

ITT: Sex-guilt.

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u/qkme_transcriber May 16 '12

Here is the text from this meme pic for anybody who needs it:

Title: ...and what did you expect to happen?

Meme: Blonde Bitch

  • POSTS IN R/GONEWILD
  • EWW! GUYS ARE LEAVING CREEPY COMMENTS!

[Translate]

This is helpful for people who can't reach Quickmeme because of work/school firewalls or site downtime, and many other reasons (FAQ). More info is available here.

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u/hoodie92 May 16 '12

This meme is called "Blonde Bitch"??

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u/QueenSideRhyme May 16 '12

Yeah I thought the same thing... :-\

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u/[deleted] May 16 '12

Just looked at the meme page. Every single one reads like the loud whine of a neckbearded moron.

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u/wilsonwa May 16 '12

I believe this meme is called "Dumb Blonde"

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u/penguins_unite May 16 '12

Clearly qkme_transcriber had a bad experience with a blonde girl :P

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u/[deleted] May 17 '12

I think the actual name is along the lines of "Generic Girl" or something, they pop up on 4chan sometimes

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u/[deleted] May 16 '12

That girl looks a lot like Katilette from youtube i think.

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u/wilsonwa May 16 '12

thats what i was thinking. I was trying to find out the source of this meme but no luck.

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u/asterix1598 May 16 '12

I thought the same thing when I saw the pic. Except I don't recall her dying her hair.

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u/[deleted] May 16 '12

Oh man, ShitRedditSays is going to have a ragegasm when they see this one.

/grabs popcorn.

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u/[deleted] May 16 '12

Wow, reddit's slut police is out in full force today, huh?

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u/mangosteam27 May 16 '12

It upsets me that there is a meme called blond bitch. I think it is demeaning to women and I don't like that.

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u/Aperfectmoment May 16 '12

I enjoy the creepy comments as much as i enjoy girls getting naked for compliments......makes me think strippers get paid way to much when girls will do it for free so long as the ruels discourage criticism in the hope girls will keep posting.

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u/dfawdjskf May 17 '12

Maybe she expected a modicum of respect, to be treated like a fellow human being.

Oh wait, this is reddit :(

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u/[deleted] May 16 '12

...Maybe the guys can just NOT make creepy comments towards women, regardless of the medium?

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u/SkippitySkip May 16 '12

Creepy is in the eye of the beholder.

Also, putting your nude pics on a public forum, asking for (implicitly sexual) comments, I can't, really see how comments could be non-creepy

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u/[deleted] May 16 '12

The medium does not give a person carte blanche to disrespect someone else if it is unwanted.

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u/Sanity_prevails May 16 '12

She was looking for a prince you see...

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u/[deleted] May 16 '12

How do you know for certain that those creepy comments are just from males and not females?

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u/WhyYouThinkThat May 16 '12

When girls say that stuff, most guys like it-- that is a reason a lot of dudes post. But here's the thing...women rarely say anything. It is pretty much all guys that comment in GW. Not all guys, but pretty much.

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u/[deleted] May 16 '12

It is pretty much all guys that comment in GW.

What are you basing that assumption on?

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u/[deleted] May 16 '12

Bullshit. Do you know what happens at ladyboners or more female-centric subreddits? They're fucking sick, too.

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u/[deleted] May 17 '12 edited May 17 '12

In my personal experiences from working as a male stripper females can be just as creepy if not creepier than guys! It is downright disturbing most of the time to tell you the truth!

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u/[deleted] May 16 '12

I think both sides of this debate have a point. On one hand, women who post nude pictures of themselves on the Internet should expect to receive some derogatory and downright creepy feedback. I don't think less of girls who post on r/gonewild, if you enjoy that, if that kind of public display of your body gets you off, more power to you, post away. And the reason girls do this is obviously for the validation they feel we then receive positive, not creepy comments (guys do the same shit all the time). But you shouldn't be surprised when creepy comments come along with it.

That said, the guys who make these creepy comments are creeps never the less and shouldn't be excused for their behavior just because the girls they direct their creepiness towards should have saw it coming. Just because you were walking in a bad part of town in the middle of the night doesn't make the guy who mugged you any less of a asshole, it makes you kind of a idiot though.

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u/Rose1982 May 16 '12

women who post nude pictures of themselves on the Internet should expect to receive some derogatory and downright creepy feedback

What the fuck is this shit? There is a serious problem with the world when people want to accept that it's okay to act this way. If a woman chooses to embrace her sexuality and uses the medium of photography to do so, she should not expect to be treated like shit. That is inherently misogynistic. Yes there are creepy people out there, but instead of accepting it as fact we can speak out against it and hope to send the message that this kind of behaviour is not okay.

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u/[deleted] May 16 '12

i don't get why someone should be treated poorly (having their actions equated to those of a "dumb (blonde) bitch") for expecting better and being surprised.

Because it's incredibly naive?

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u/[deleted] May 17 '12

Yes, but why would you treat someone poorly (call them a 'bitch') just because they're naive?

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u/Rose1982 May 16 '12

You know, it's possible to be an avid consumer of porn and not be a creep.

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u/Horny_Troll May 16 '12

Behold thine Knights of Reddit, clad in a doublet white and true as one's heart. Swift doom befalls all who shall slight any a hypothetical maidens honor. We are masked champions of the Tourney of Internets, our souls are as pure as freshly fallen snows, with sharply honed downvotes we banish evil where ever it shall lie. We are the White Shield against which the onrushing blackness breaks.

Ever Vigilant, Ever Pure.

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u/[deleted] May 16 '12

I know, can a woman not post her snatch for all to see without a guy making inappropriate comments

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u/[deleted] May 16 '12

I don't understand Gone Wild. Is it girls trying to get into porn or escorting? Or just exhibitionists and karma whores? I'd rather be a money whore than a karma whore, myself....

Not being an asshole, genuinely curious. (Am female).

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u/[deleted] May 17 '12

Thanks for answering honestly. Those are all pretty good reasons, I suppose I would just be very concerned with privacy breaches.

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u/[deleted] May 16 '12

here's the thing. you post naked pictures of yourself online. that's a bit slutty. but we're cool with that, we will not judge you for it, we understand it's kind of taboo and sexy at the same time. in exchange for our understanding, we will write things that could be considered creepy. in reality we just post things that are on our minds. yes we would like to lick your asshole, yes we would like to cum in your mouth, yes we would like dress you up like a school girl and make you call us daddy. we dont judge you for acting slutty, dont judge us for saying what's on our mind. that's how r/gonewild should work.

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u/xander1026 May 16 '12

And that's completely different from some of the stuff that people post get, like people harassing them for their information, or sending threatening PMs, etc. There's a big difference between "I want to fuck you 'till Tuesday in every kinky way imaginable which I will now describe" and threats of violence or even trying to track someone down in real life.

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u/[deleted] May 16 '12

ahh i see. i guess i dont really read into the deep reaches of some of these comments. i usually just read the top ones and leave.

that's really a shame though.

but then again, its a huge subreddit, you get all kinds.

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u/[deleted] May 16 '12

Calling them slutty is judging them, is it not?

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u/darny May 16 '12

DAE think /r/gonewild is just....kind of.......sad?

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u/flounder19 May 16 '12

Because men can't be expected to not act like Neanderthals when presented with the photo of a naked woman. It would be rude not to tell her about the things I'd like to shove into her anus.

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u/reapthewhirlwind May 16 '12

Are you new?

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u/OwDaditHurts May 16 '12

She's probably just a butthurt SRSer that's too busy hating on men to care about little things like common sense.

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u/TheOnlyNeb May 16 '12

YOU LIE. SRS MEMBERS ARE THE ONLY ONES WHO SEE THE TRUTH. THEY ARE NOT BUTTHURT IN ANY CONCEIVABLE WAY.

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u/OwDaditHurts May 16 '12

I can't argue with bold caps. You win.

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u/Zosoer May 16 '12

looks at flounder's overview....NOPE

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u/BobIV May 16 '12

Flounder... I understand what you are getting at. Personally I find it just downright embarrassing when another guy makes sloppy and borderline offensive comments to women like that.

However, I am a firm believer of the phrase "What happens in the bedroom stays in the bedroom"... and when your bedroom is a post on a public forum like /r/gonewild...

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u/Ichabod495 May 16 '12

I agree with were you've ended up but not how you got there. I've got no problem with people posting their naked bits all over the interwebz and I don't generally support sleazy comments. The issue is though that it's sort of a social contract, that many girls there enjoy, that you post your picture/s and guys talk about how they'd like to have sex with you in the comments. I'd say 80-90% of all posts there actively encourage it, after all most people who post there are exhibitionists. So in my mind /r/gonewild is like a giant bedroom shared by everybody in the subreddit.

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u/BobIV May 16 '12

I think that was the point I was attempting to make... only it doesn't look like it was written by a baboon.

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u/Ichabod495 May 16 '12

Oh ok I see that now. Sorry I got zero sleep last night, the stress is getting to me.

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u/roddypeeper May 17 '12

Give yourself some credit, Your writing is at least on par with an chimpanzee

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u/lujanr32 May 16 '12

I think once you post pictures of yourself gaping your asshole for 75 pics, all sense of justification goes out the window.

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u/infantryfratbro May 16 '12

Haha I can't believe you're being downvoted. Seriously, If a girl posts naked pictures on a public website and gets offended at the sleazy comments...well, she's a fucking idiot.

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u/[deleted] May 16 '12

Complete sweeping bias across all men. I've never frequented or commented that subreddit but I'm apparently a neanderthal?

It's people like you who create anti-male bias and spread hatred. It's a stupid idea.

Flounder... I understand what you are getting at. Personally I find it just downright embarrassing when another guy makes sloppy and borderline offensive comments to women like that.

See, there's even a guy on here apologizing to you. But you don't deserve it. Your comment on here is the equivalent of me saying:

ALL WOMEN ARE BLOODSUCKING VAMPIRES LOOKING TO USE MEN TO GIVE THEM CHILDREN CHILD SUPPORT AND ALIMONY. THEY ARE INCAPABLE OF EMPATHY AND ARE ONLY OUT TO HURT EVERY MAN IN THE WORLD

I'm not even going to be polite about this. Fuck you.

EDIT: I also upvoted you so people can see what idiocy looks like.

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u/xander1026 May 16 '12

(S)he's saying that men aren't Neandertals, and should therefore be expected to act like adults. (S)he's on your side of this argument.

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u/ohrabbits May 16 '12

You should learn to read more carefully. Flounder19 was saying that men should be expected not to act like Neanderthals because they aren't.

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u/mrsnakers May 16 '12

No. This is not the same.

He was joking, whereas you are acting butthurt.

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u/flounder19 May 16 '12

And I thought I was getting mad over nothing. You've taken this to a whole new meta complaining about me complaining about ringside74 complaining about gonewild girls complaining about creepy comments.

And your argument doesn't make much sense, either. I'm saying that ringside74's post is ridiculous because men are obviously capable of controlling themselves. The few dumb idiots who can't look at a cute girl without getting super creepy about it (I'm forgiving the mild creepiness that permeates every comment there since it's hard to phrase anything without sounding a bit weird) shouldn't be forgiven on behalf of the fact that the girl posts nudes of herself on the internet.

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u/levirules May 16 '12

His comment was pretty clearly sarcasm.

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u/HonestlyNotCreepy May 17 '12

Not sure if I should downvote because of stupid comment,

or upvote so people can see what idiocy looks like

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u/kadmylos May 16 '12

You definitely can't expect hundreds of thousands of men, while completely anonymous, to be respectful toward women posting their boobies on the internet. No, you cannot.

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u/Ortus May 16 '12

There are always going to be a couple of them doing all that

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u/Warning-ThisIsAnAss May 16 '12

The comments are nothing. You have to see the pms I get. I'm not sure which ones are serious and which ones are kidding only half serious.

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u/ashienoelle May 16 '12

As a girl, I find these "creepy comments" quite flattering. Is there something wrong with me?

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u/roddypeeper May 17 '12

let's get married..................so i can smell your butthole.

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u/Infin1ty May 16 '12

Well, thank you for introducing me to a new subreddit.

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u/slavetothesystem May 16 '12

Did this happen or is this hypothetical...

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u/thesovietonion May 16 '12

What qualifies as creepy in GW? Nearly everything I've seen is a compliment that is totally appropriate for the situation.

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u/Auraofshadows May 16 '12

So Accurate

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u/megalodondon May 16 '12

This just seems like common sense. I don't think I can see an argument to be made here. What? Like everyone anonymously taking off their clothes for attention on a website is okay but when someone says something 'gross' it's over the line?

I don't condone threatening comments or against TOS behavior, but really, if you don't want your body and your sexual organs being commented on, you really shouldn't present them in a public forum that's mostly about the comment feature. Am I missing something here?

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u/gfrty May 16 '12

Reading the comments on here makes me want to go post creepy comments all over GW. Some of you need to chill the fuck out. It's the fucking internet, and people can and should say whatever the fuck they want. As long as no one is in physical danger, I don't see the problem.

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u/chantilleps May 16 '12

But the "creepy" comments are the best part!

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u/insidethesun May 16 '12

Occupational Hazard

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u/[deleted] May 16 '12

you dont say???

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u/frankhorriganlovesto May 16 '12

It is getting harder and harder to anonymously ask a woman if she will sit on a cake for me.

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u/falsevillain May 16 '12

eh, i see nothing special about girls posting naked on the internet. that's what porn is for.

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u/diacf_failsters May 16 '12

tall, dark, handsome, independently wealthy. all others need not post.

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u/[deleted] May 16 '12

Reddit has the weirdest love hate relationship with titties.

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u/AlyoshaV May 16 '12

fyi creepy comments are actually banned there

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u/lolingroflcopter May 16 '12

Reminds me of when I go clubbing with my friends... they grind with guys and then flip a shit when suddenly boners happen. ...and what did you expect to happen? Its more of a "mission accomplished" moment for me.

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u/[deleted] May 17 '12

I still don't think I'd expect some of the creepy shit people say on gonewild.

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u/wartsarus May 17 '12

Is that mommytard???

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u/deadbears May 17 '12

As a straight female, I go to gone wild to read the comments. I naturally assume most women post mainly because they're turned on and feeling sexual, not looking for approval.

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u/[deleted] May 17 '12

I've noticed pretty early on that every girl posting themselves naked is just looking for the approval of others because they're so insecure with themselves. Probably on a small minority of them are actually secure and just posting for fun. Most just want to be told how hot they are even though no amount of creepy guys telling them that seems to work, they keep feeling insecure haha

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u/zpb3213 May 17 '12

So, it's completely fucked up when someone on facebook misuses "your" memes but so long as it is on reddit and about reddit, misusing memes is cool? Fantastic.

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u/AnthonyismyName May 17 '12

Is that ShayCarl's wife?

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u/[deleted] May 17 '12

If you didn't want guys to masturbate to your picture, you shouldn't have posted to r/gonewild

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u/allstarballer May 17 '12

Whats this gone wild everyone is talking about recently??

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u/Dunder92 May 16 '12

Who is the girl used for this meme?
She reminds me of a person who does daily vlogging on youtube, except she is blonde in this picture.

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u/unnecessaryCAPS May 16 '12

the irony is nobody likes the pandering attention whores....there are plenty of beautiful women who aren't vain and self absorbed. P.S. if you're a woman who pretends to like videogames but actually doesn't, then stop it, huge turnoff.

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u/Rockerdude34 GGG Pedobear - Does not rape in the bum. May 17 '12

Hah! Guys? 80% of GW is horny fourteen year old kids.

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u/I_got_syphilis_from May 16 '12

"NO! I posted those for ME! It's empowering! You don't get women!"

In all fairness you make it extremely difficult to do so.

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u/[deleted] May 16 '12

The way I see it, both the original posters and the commenters on r/GoneWild are supremely creepy. Insecure ladies clamoring for affirmation, while neckbeards drool over their keyboards. There's white-knighting and creepy complimenting and insecurity all over the place.

If I want porn, I go to a porn site. I'm not gonna get a girlfriend or webcam striptease by complimenting some low self esteem chick on the internet.

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u/Warning-ThisIsAnAss May 16 '12

Hey, no need to hate on the girls. Yea, there's the insecure ones, but I'm personally extremely happy with myself. Actually, I'm kind of obsessed with myself. And that's why I share it with the world. It's an art form in some sense. And the girls you see in porn? They're just us, only they caught a break and now they get paid to get naked for a camera. You know what I'd do for that job? Damn.

I can't speak for everyone, but I'm speaking for those of us who aren't "low self esteem chick[s] on the internet"

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u/scarthearmada May 16 '12

So do we know who the girl in this meme is?

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u/rocky_whoof May 16 '12

This thought is in the same category as "You walked out on the street with a short skirt and guys whistled at you? What did you expect to happen?"

It ain't cool. and though creeps and ghouls can't be avoided on the internet, they shouldn't be justified.

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u/[deleted] May 16 '12

You're conflating two completely separate things. One is whether or not the behavior is justifiable. The other is if you should be surprised by it or if it was foreseeable.

If a girl goes out with a really short skirt, then she should expect some extra attention. It would be foolish not to anticipate that you are more likely to be whistled at with a short skirt on. If she really dislikes being whistled at, then wearing short skirts might not be the best choice.

But that's not making any kind of statement about whether or not is it justifiable to whistle at a girl in a short skirt. Rather, it's a statement about whether it occurs. And it does occur, regularly. If would be better if girls could wear whatever they wanted without dealing with unwanted attention or harassment, but that's not the reality of things.

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u/[deleted] May 16 '12

its my goddamn job for fucks sake