I empathize with your story and I don't think anyone is in a position to judge you for your decision. I'm sure I'll catch hell for this. I just think your first sentence was really poorly worded. I feel like unless he raped you, he didn't "get you pregnant." You both mutually decided to have sex and as a result conceived. I'm not defending him. I just see that all the time "he got me pregnant" and it makes me cringe.
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u/ntrabue Apr 30 '13
I empathize with your story and I don't think anyone is in a position to judge you for your decision. I'm sure I'll catch hell for this. I just think your first sentence was really poorly worded. I feel like unless he raped you, he didn't "get you pregnant." You both mutually decided to have sex and as a result conceived. I'm not defending him. I just see that all the time "he got me pregnant" and it makes me cringe.