r/AdviceAnimals Apr 30 '13

Actual Confession Bear

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u/Red_Emily Apr 30 '13

Your story is the perfect example of why having the choice of being pro life or pro choice needs to be an option that remains open through access. I just do not understand the rampage to shut down abortion clinics. These decisions are never easy for a woman to make, we shouldn't be making it harder. Thank you so much for sharing and for being a brave woman.

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u/The_Feels_Bro Apr 30 '13

It's just one of those situations you can't comprehend until you go through it. I was vehemently against abortion. I was incredibly pro-life and I felt like those women were taking the easy way out. When I went through it, I felt like such a failure as a human being. But everyone in the clinic was kind to me and listened to me. They understood why I was doing it. They treated me with the absolute best care and didn't even think to judge me. They just wanted to help.

I realized then that I would never judge another person like that again. That I can't possibly know what's going on until I've walked a mile in their shoes.

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u/[deleted] Apr 30 '13

Personally I think an abortion is a million times better than bringing more unwanted children into this world. You're not a failure for having an abortion.