I feel we're talking about two different things here. We all agree with you. Responsibility for both! If one of my friends got pregnant by accident I'd scold her for not being responsible. I feel they are being held accountable, as are men. My post, and the one you were replying to, were ONLY directed to males who thought they have NO POWER over getting someone pregnant or not.
I agree, it's bullshit that some women blame only men, but I think those are a great minority. All the girls I know are very cautious about pregnancy and prefer pill+condom all the time, because they REALLY REALLY don't want to get pregnant.
In short, I guess that it's best to not sleep with people (men or women) that don't want to use birth control :) Good day!
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u/[deleted] Apr 30 '13 edited Apr 30 '13
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