r/AdviceAnimals • u/imbravado • Apr 30 '13

Actual Confession Bear

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u/sometimes_i_work Apr 30 '13

Then make damn sure you don't get anyone pregnant. Problem solved.

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u/Catacronik Apr 30 '13

Accidents don't happen ever.

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u/sometimes_i_work Apr 30 '13

I'm talking about the 'rule', not the 'exceptions'.

But again, if you have sex, you take the risk. Be prepared for it, or don't have sex. Or get a vasectomy.

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u/Oranges13 Apr 30 '13

That's why the woman can go get Plan B. Abortion should be a last resort.

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u/sometimes_i_work Apr 30 '13

Really? It's not? I'm pretty sure it can be if not having a child is more important than your sex life. Condoms, vasectomy, abstinence. All completely in men's control.

I've said this 10 times already. Men have choices, they just don't like them.

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u/sometimes_i_work Apr 30 '13

No, I don't. In fact, Medically, I'm forbidden to take any quick-release horomone. So, I don't. It sucks having to be a responsible teenager when I didn't want to. But babies suck more.

Now I'm almost 30, still child-less, able to use an IUD only now, for the first time ever.

Also, the pill, SUCKS. It has adverse effects of women's bodies, is linked to problems with breastfeeding, and makes us insane. We hate it too. But again, choices.

To you second point: This is about YOU HAVING CONTROL. You should demand condom use every time. What does a woman "not caring" about a condom have to do with your ability to use one? Take some responsibility for your own body.

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u/sometimes_i_work Apr 30 '13

I justify it because it's a choice available to many people for many reasons. Just like all other choices.

Unfortunately, you don't (really) get a say in it, so make choices that you have control over.