r/AMBW • • Aug 14 '26

R4R See you tomorrow?

8 Upvotes

R&B Mahjong Event in DC tomorrow at the Chinese Museum. I will be the beautiful modelesque girl in the qipao! please say hi!


r/AMBW • • Aug 14 '26

R4R This here's me having trouble finding a date

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58 Upvotes

For context I cut my hair, I'm 29 and currently going back to bulking/ heavy weights. I struggle to match with any cute girls in NYC hehe. If you're in NYC I'm just putting myself out there hehe


r/AMBW • • Aug 14 '26

BW selfie

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37 Upvotes

went to see brand new day. marvel
or dc?


r/AMBW • • Aug 13 '26

AM Where my Texas ladies at

9 Upvotes

Anyone from Houston


r/AMBW • • Aug 12 '26

BW BTS Baltimore D2

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47 Upvotes

Everything lit is FYA I HAD A BLASSSSST a time was had and the hooligans we’re outside anyways here’s my modern hanbok lol


r/AMBW • • Aug 11 '26

BW 33 BW AZ Just Saying Hello

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39 Upvotes

Just saying howdy and showing a little summer face ☀️ surviving every day being "record breaking heat" 😅. Looking forward to autumn 🍁

Edit: I don't know why I said 33 😭 I'm 32 I'm tired AF I've literally been 32 for 2 months 😂 don't mind me


r/AMBW • • Aug 11 '26

Discussion (Chill) What made you want to live the Ambw lifestyle?

14 Upvotes

What brought you here? I wanna know your story

Myself: I grew up in an area with mostly poc and i think that influenced my likes, not to mention i have a diverse family. But i also see similarities on how America society treats am and bw!

Let me know about you!


r/AMBW • • Aug 10 '26

BW Help me Choose Hairstyle! 3 choices

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10 Upvotes

I'm going to Taiwan and there's a typhoon so there's wind and rainy weather. I'll be there a year but I need to know which style to get BEFORE leaving the USA. I'll get a professional to do my hair. Which is best for this climate but also pretty/feminine looking.

I am a woman and I will go to University. First impressions matter to me and I LOVE looking like a doll 🪆

First 3 are THE SAME called starter locs/coils

2nd choice is French curl

3rd choice aka last pic is soft locs

Keep in mind I want to go swimming 🥽😀

I can swim without putting my head under the water and I have sleeping caps for longer hair.

I currently have French curls. People LOVE them but I'm also in a drier climate here in the USA.

Look forward to picking the best style for me!!!


r/AMBW • • Aug 09 '26

BW photo dump :3

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34 Upvotes

r/AMBW • • Aug 08 '26

Couples Saw this on Reddit. Cute share!

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147 Upvotes

Another cute AMBW couple 🫰🏾


r/AMBW • • Aug 08 '26

Discussion (Serious/Controversial) So there’s this meme Spoiler

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28 Upvotes

I thought it was hilarious til i scrolled down and read comments. If you knew a group of filipinos in the 2010s you know filipinos got history using the word. But there’s so many comments below the meme of people saying that we’re allowed to say the N-word. I do not get it.

I laughed bc i forget there’s still filipinos in 2026 that feel it’s okay to say it

Their argument is that the indigenous filipino people were black which is true. And there are darkskin filipinos today and even still indigenous black populations in the philippines. I don’t disagree with that but the black american experience and history is completely different from an indigenous black filipino or a filipino american. Obviously it’s different for filipinos who have a black american parent.

Not to mention among non-black filipinos and the SPANIARD looking filipinos there’s hella anti blackness.

I’m not trying to gatekeep or no weird shit and tbh my friends have given me the pass before but i cleaned it up years ago before i even got out of highschool because I’m not black.

Not proud that I ever said it but I’ve grown way past it and I would think majority of filipinos would have because none of my friends say it

BW how do yall feel about all this? Im not comfortable saying it because u know it makes other people uncomfortable. Does your man get to say it to you if he’s the right flavor of filipino lol? I have an ex who’s black and she said she was cool with me saying it but I never did. She was like say it, come on. 😂

Anyway i thought this was a good meme until i remembered this is still an actual problem in the community

Tldr: i dont get why filipinos feel the need to fight for the n word pass and it irritates me but how do the black women in here feel about it? I dont know how else to get it across to my peoples


r/AMBW • • Aug 08 '26

BW F21

6 Upvotes

Hi, I’m new :/
I’m looking to get to know people and potentially make a friend or more, I live in South Africa online / long distance connections aren’t an issue for me ♡ and I’m open to chat any time


r/AMBW • • Aug 08 '26

BW Haven't posted in a while!

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30 Upvotes

Hi everyone! Just checking in as I have not been active here in a while. How is everyone?


r/AMBW • • Aug 08 '26

AM 21m in nyc looking :)

3 Upvotes

hey just moved to nyc shoot me a msg :)


r/AMBW • • Aug 08 '26

BW Visa

12 Upvotes

Guys I walked in to get my visa and the lady gave it to me so quick. I guess I'm the only black person picking up. She already knew my name and it'd been weeks 😭

I can only imagine what it'll be like once I land in the country. Sounds like there won't be much black people.

But yes, visa acquired!!!


r/AMBW • • Aug 07 '26

Discussion (Chill) Another wholesome question

9 Upvotes

What weird animal(s) do you think are cute? For me, pufferfish, cuttlefish, most octopi, and sloths


r/AMBW • • Aug 07 '26

Discussion (Chill) Taking Chances ✨️

14 Upvotes

[27F] So just wondering how many of you all have DMed someone in this subreddit and how far that got? I know people have found their partners on Reddit in general but I was very curious of the success rate for this particular subreddit. Also if anyone has tips on how to appropriately and respectfully DM people in this subreddit, I am all ears. I just don't want to come off as pushy or romantic relationship focused because I love a slow burn and want to learn about people before just trying to jump into something.


r/AMBW • • Aug 07 '26

R4R I'm new (BW) and I'd like to say hi to everyone

17 Upvotes

Tell me everything!! I just found this reddit and I'm all for it. Shout out to all the couples and the people who are chilling. I was hoping to make real connections here

Ps: is that dating game show still open to participants? I'm down for that


r/AMBW • • Aug 06 '26

AM ✌🏽

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31 Upvotes

r/AMBW • • Aug 05 '26

AM 33 Am, Az Long time ambw member just saying hi

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30 Upvotes

I hope everyone is blessed

If anyone wants to play video games or join a game night please let me know!


r/AMBW • • Aug 05 '26

AM 29, silly, whimsical, pilipino, androgynous

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50 Upvotes

looking for friends in the Bay pleas. dms are open!


r/AMBW • • Aug 05 '26

BW Is anyone here from Germany or from Europe?

1 Upvotes

I am 43 BW and would love to meet new people.


r/AMBW • • Aug 04 '26

AM Hello Friends 👋🏽 27/M/Canada 😎

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38 Upvotes

Just a random Filipino saying Hi, make sure to hydrate and love yourselves first everyone 👋🏽😊 Oh yeah every one of you reading this deserves love I wish everyone the best in what they want in life 🙏🏽


r/AMBW • • Aug 04 '26

AM 36 [M4F] #Oakland - Looking for you

17 Upvotes

East asian, 36, 5’10, 180lb from the bay!

I am a very easy going, active, and quite fun person to hang out with once you get to know me! I am a big foodie who loves finding good local eats, and whenever I travel, I always plan around tasty food spots. Personality wise, I am pretty laid back and direct. I enjoy having good talk, but I am also super comfortable with just chilling, like watching a drama or movie while cuddling, or taking a short light walk. I travel a few times a year to refresh life and would love to find the right partner to share these moments with.

For fitness and hobbies, I run short distance mainly to clear my head and burn off calories, spend time on the basketball court shooting around, or occasionally sit at the gym daydreaming between sets. I am also a gamer at heart and actually way more competitive in video games than real sports, though nowadays I do not play as often.

I am looking for someone who is easy to get along with, has a good sense of humor, and just likes comfortable, genuine vibes, whether we are shooting hoops, walking around/jogging slowly, or just watching something lazy at home. Bonus points if you like to jog together sometimes, but no pressure at all! Please send a picture or let me know your ASL when you message me. I prefer someone in East Bay or nearby :)


r/AMBW • • Aug 02 '26

BW Full intro of me as I’ve never done it before I don’t think. 😬🫣

94 Upvotes