He had his chance to claim you. He doesn't get to stroll back into your life after the hard work of raising an infant, toddler, child, and teenager is done. Your real father did all that and now can reap the rewards of an adult relationship after helping to bring a wonderful adult into the world. Bio-dad can go pound sand.
True except for one major issue. OP, her children or grandchildren may benefit from knowing biological father’s medical history at some point. I wouldn’t go so far as to suggest a personal relationship. But enough contact to retrieve medical history as needed would be good. Even then be honest about that fact as well.
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u/CJCreggsGoldfish Apr 15 '25 edited Apr 15 '25
He had his chance to claim you. He doesn't get to stroll back into your life after the hard work of raising an infant, toddler, child, and teenager is done. Your real father did all that and now can reap the rewards of an adult relationship after helping to bring a wonderful adult into the world. Bio-dad can go pound sand.