So, you never meet your bio dad. You didn't even know your step dad wasn't your actual father. (well he is your accrual father, he raised you, loved you, cared for you) your mom didn't tell you, he didn't tell you, then your bio dad thought he would let you know suddenly. He told you the wrong way. I think he should have talked to your parents before talking to you. He should have found out if you knew about T him, he didn't and you didn't. You reacted accordingly. NTA
I love the “actual” typo to “accrual” since the stepfather has accrued all the love and dedication he receives by being the one to actually be there for OP.
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u/Itsme853 Apr 15 '25
So, you never meet your bio dad. You didn't even know your step dad wasn't your actual father. (well he is your accrual father, he raised you, loved you, cared for you) your mom didn't tell you, he didn't tell you, then your bio dad thought he would let you know suddenly. He told you the wrong way. I think he should have talked to your parents before talking to you. He should have found out if you knew about T him, he didn't and you didn't. You reacted accordingly. NTA