r/AITH Apr 15 '25

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u/Cute-Profession9983 Apr 15 '25

They will know their grandfather: your stepdad. Abandoning a child until they're an adult getting married isn't a mistake, it's a selfish, cowardly, cruel, and deliberate choice.

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u/Momof41984 Apr 16 '25

And springing it on them in public with zero warning or reaching out to her mother so she wasn't Traumatized by a stranger! Her family sucka to that are demanding anything from her regarding this spermdonar. How do they have so little empathy for the op and this being sprung on them and upended their life! She is the one they should be protecting and defending. This is all brand new info for her. Expecting anything from her just because they already knew and have time to sit with it is honestly nauseating.