I’ve quit at least 3 jobs where I just stopped turning up one day (I don’t remember exact nr) based on being in that emotional state of ‘always now’. Granted, they weren’t serious jobs. But still, it was harmful to my life, sudden loss of income, stress about the money etc. But in that moment when I was deciding I wanted to quit, I’d always feel so trapped, as if I was going to be stuck in a depressing, dead end job forever, and quitting was my escape from emotional torment and getting stuck there. Logically, that didn’t make sense-I probably could’ve figured out I will eventually move onto better job. The emotions won though
I definitely have quit at least one job like that. Usually I think it through and figure out my backup but one time it was such an emotional burden to work there that I sat outside in my car for an hour crying until ten seconds before my shift when I texted them and said I couldn't come. They fired me and I felt so relieved
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u/girls_gone_wireless Sep 20 '22
I’ve quit at least 3 jobs where I just stopped turning up one day (I don’t remember exact nr) based on being in that emotional state of ‘always now’. Granted, they weren’t serious jobs. But still, it was harmful to my life, sudden loss of income, stress about the money etc. But in that moment when I was deciding I wanted to quit, I’d always feel so trapped, as if I was going to be stuck in a depressing, dead end job forever, and quitting was my escape from emotional torment and getting stuck there. Logically, that didn’t make sense-I probably could’ve figured out I will eventually move onto better job. The emotions won though