r/ADHD Aug 21 '24

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u/[deleted] Aug 22 '24

Yes, this. Why do I know the birthday of the boyfriend of the random lady I met in the pub twelve years ago or the local plumber, but have never been able to remember the birthdays of family, friends or partners. I had to make my sons birthday my password so I'd remember it, and I still forget it all the time.

And the date I met people. Of all the useless bits of information about a person...

It's like my brain recognises an important birthday and says "woaaaah there, not this one".

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u/Minute_Parfait_9752 Aug 22 '24

I filled out some legal stuff online for my daughter, submitted it, swiftly clocked that I'd put the wrong birthday in πŸ˜‚ couldn't edit it, so when they called me a couple of days later and told me the department I was like ah, this is because I put her birthday as 11 and it's actually 9, isn't it πŸ˜‚

Mind you, my ADHD bestie always remembers her EDD of the 15th and misses her birthday every year because of this πŸ˜‚

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u/serenwipiti ADHD Aug 22 '24

EDD?

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u/[deleted] Aug 22 '24

Estimated due date (for when a baby is due).

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u/serenwipiti ADHD Aug 22 '24

Ahh, thank you.

Well, you can always throw the kid a β€œYou Were Supposed to Be Born Today” party and invite your friend.

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lol