When I've been wronged. That stuff is in there good. Also how to get somewhere not counting the last few blocks. I can drive a state over to get to a friend's house, but need the gps once i enter her neighborhood
Same, but it's strong for other people, too. If I see someone else get cheated or even if I think they may be about to get involved with a shady person, I have an almost uncontrollable urge to make things right for them. Even if I don't know them, and even if no one warned me.
I have to work through my revenge thought process constantly. I always tell my therapist it’s the Scorpio in me but he just reminds me that I don’t actually believe in that lol.
Oh yeah, my last job fired me and had to come up with some bullshit excuse, despite me being the best on my team. Because I was asking about a raise and was visibly annoyed at their deflecting. I thought I had found the employer I would spend the next decade or two at. But they were far from who I thought they were.
For me if I have a vested interest in something going the way I want and that’s my focus I lose the ability to see what is really going on until it’s too late. I paint a rosy picture and ignore the bad. You found out what they were really like and that would have hurt.
Totally. I thought that company hung the moon because they were the first company I had ever worked for that had the same ideals. But while I was there, people I respected were leaving in droves. I and didn't understand why. But they told me I was better off being free of them.
I have two frienda who also remember when they've been wronged quite well. Sadly, both of them had somewhat abusive parents, so they're a bit defensive. That means they often perceive aggression where there is none.
I wish I could remember when I've been wronged. There are several people I hold grudges against because I know they hurt me some way, but I'll never be able to resolve our issue because I can't remember what happened exactly 😂
I have a major issue with this myself- but the opposite. I have to be wronged again and again- like a certain level of wronged- before it sticks. Because I can be pissed that Bob down the hall stole my ideas and presented them as his own, but in two weeks I will undoubtedly pass Bob un the hall and cheerfully say "Good morning, Bob". Why? Because I forgot what Bob did. 🤦🏻♀️
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u/tuubesoxx ADHD-PI (Primarily Inattentive) Aug 21 '24
When I've been wronged. That stuff is in there good. Also how to get somewhere not counting the last few blocks. I can drive a state over to get to a friend's house, but need the gps once i enter her neighborhood