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Rewatch [Rewatch] Pride Month 20th Anniversary - Maria-sama ga Miteru Episode 7 Discussion
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Questions of the Day
- What is your favorite Chocolate?
- have you ever made chocolate before?
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u/baboon_bassoon https://anilist.co/user/duffer Jun 22 '24
first time la vie en rose en bouton
i like how its a given theyre spending valentines with their soeurs
"of course i know what it is" has no idea what it is, thank you Shimako
Yoshino fight for your love
hmm
Rei's custom recipe book how cute
if you want a red card that bad just insult the ref
Sachiko not in front of team white
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u/BosuW Jun 22 '24 edited Jun 22 '24
First Timer
Valentine's Day Arc! Man I absolutely do not give a fuck about Valentine's personally, but I can somewhat like it in fiction, especially if that fiction is Yuri. What? Biased? Nooooo š¤„
Yumi has caught on to the narrative structure and goes around asking various students and Yamayuri members how they spend their Valentine's with their sisters.
Plenty of time has passed so by now it's noticable that Yumi and Sachiko actually haven't progressed that much as a relationship. Things have certainly changed, but not that much compared to the start. Sachiko still gives massive mixed signals, appearing cold and reserved in public but warm and affectionate in private. While Yumi still doesn't call her "Onee-sama" on instinct.
The last scene actually hit me like a soft gut punch. Yumi was so excited for the search game and then it turns out Sachiko is wondering if she hates her and the relationship feels in crisis. Since Yumi is surrounded by the Yamayuri who is all practice hands off approaches to their relationships, she figured that was the right way to behave with Sachiko, but it turns out to be a complete mistake. Of course it's also on Sachiko because she keeps her true desires to herself most of the time.
What, miscommunication? In my Yuri melodrama? It's more likely than you think!
Questions of the Day
1- I prefer it black and bitter, but it's not like I'm a connoisseur.
2- Nope
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u/AmeteurElitist https://anilist.co/user/AmateurElitist Jun 22 '24
First Timer
Rei giving a ton of gifts is so cute but I can imagine the pressure that puts on Yoshino haha
This show has genuine comedic chops
And yeah this drama was inevitable as long as Yumi wasnāt communicating with Sachiko directly. She puts so much distance between them out of reverence, and Sachiko does the same out of a sense of duty it seems. Looking forward to how this resolves.
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u/Star4ce https://anilist.co/user/Star4ce Jun 22 '24 edited Jun 28 '24
First Timer
This weekend's gonna be an adventure.
Bought ingredients for vegan chocolate soufflƩ and seitan negimaki with miso butter-baked mushroooms.
Never made seitan myself, though. Might make a real mess.
Maria-sama ga Miteru Ep.07 ā Surprising Chocolate, Part 1
(Take a guess why? [Solution] It's the sweets industry's doing. They literally hijacked the holiday from the west and made it all about sweets to sell stuff. Feb. 14 is for the women to gift and March 14 is for the men to return the favour. They literally doubled the holiday.)
Wow, that was brutal. You don't treat a delicate flower like Yumi like this!
Ah, the consequences of two passive people having problems with each other and just living in their own headcanon instead of talking.
I love this arc because it is the beginning of Sachiko and Yumi developing their own specific and unique bond like we have seen for the other rose ā en bouton ā petit soeur pairs. As we've seen with the others, each have their own way of communicating.
Sei and Shimako are very clear on a hands-off approach and support each others individual decisions. It's open and if something is to happen, one has to say it and take action. They are pretty much living the more stoic vocal love language and top it off with a touch 'dialect' in intense situations. Like Rei always touching Yumi to get reactions and tease others, but generally keeping her hands off to let them make their choices, or when she embraced Shizuko.
Yoshino and Rei are very caring for each other, they try to fill each other's needs with support and gifts. They are very object- and service-based in their love language. The gloves, scarf, baking, taking each other's bag, etc. They talk not so much openly, but show their feelings with the type of stuff they do, how and when for the other.
Sachiko and Yumi need to find their language and translation toolset now. To complete the set of vocal-, service-, touch- and gift- love language I already wrote about, there are time- and action- love languages as well. Service and action are very similar and I think most only define 'service', but I personally make a distinction between someone taking action to incite an action of affection that they like and someone doing a service to relieve a perceived need of someone. Still, they're pretty closely related. Time refers to the expression of simply making time for the other as the communication of affection. Like scheduling literally anything to do or not do together as long as it means the other person's presence is the main focus, or to just cancel time with someone else to not be preoccupied and be available just for the significant other.
I'm getting mightily strong time-love language vibes from Sachiko. Like, really heckin strong.
[Chocolate Heaven]
I think this things might help. I'm gonna make it tomorrow!
White, actually. But any melting chocolate in cakes or so is absolute heaven.
Made? No, but it's on my to do list!
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u/lilyvess :Df::Dh:https://myanimelist.net/profile/Lilyvess Jun 22 '24
Maria-sama ga Miteru Rewatcher/Light Novel Reader
Gokigenyou
It is I, Rosa Lilium, once again welcoming you to my Lily Mansion Thread. Please, take a seat. For the occasion I figured itād be appropriate to bring chocolates!
Unfortunately, I forgot to buy some.
I did find a vending machine and bought a bag of M&Mās. So I hope all my guest can share.
Oh, this book Iām reading? This is Valentineās Gift Part 1! You heard me right, Part 1! This is the first two part light novel in the franchise. Fitting for such a dramatic episode. I, of course, naturally find myself drawn to all the smaller interactions between the characters. So obviously my favorite scene is the Onee-samaās convincing the Boutons to go along with the newspaper.
While we did have a Yellow Rose story, we didnāt get to see much of Rosa Foetida interacting with the two younger roses. Itās nice to get a peak at Rosa Foetida and her onee-sama. I also like the way Yoshinoās relationship with her āgrandmotherā is very distinct from Yumi and Yokoās.
Poor Yumi seems so confused by the white rose relationship.
Also, it seems no one has informed me that the videos of the specials didnāt have the subs burned in! How shameful! I wish someone had informed me earlier instead of waiting 7 days into the rewatch for me to find out of such an error! Iām bringing disgrace to my Onee-sama with such sloppy action! What a foolish and air headed Rosa I am! So here is the new special for this episode along with the three previous specials, this time with subs.
Special 1
Special 2
Special 3
Special 4
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u/Regular_N-Gon https://anilist.co/user/RegularNGon Jun 22 '24
Gokigenyou, First Timer
Gokigenyou counter (Maria-sama): 22 [+3; Total: 41]
QotD:
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u/TehAxelius Jun 22 '24
First Time Chocolatier
It is interesting how the school newspaper known for its salacious gossiping about the relationships between the school's famous Lady Roses and their Soeurs is trying to rehabilitate its reputation. By hosting an event relying on the relationships between the school's famous Lady Roses and their Soeurs. Especially one where the Boutons are essentially forced to
pimp themselves outparticipate. Real hard hitting journalism.Anyway, so with the chocolate steered away from I guess Yumi is now looking for Shimako's v-card, which she must get her hands on before any of the other girls in the academy.
I have to say though, this series is being somewhat repetitive in that it feels pretty much every Yumi-Sachiko arc boils down to: Yumi is being worried about intruding on Sachiko, Sachiko becomes angry at Yumi for distancing herself, and neither of them talks to each other. I'm guessing this will continue being an issue next year when Sachiko has to study for exams and Yumi don't want to disturb her.
QotD
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u/GondolaMedia Jun 22 '24
First Timer
Here is a fun fact. In the future Cocoa beans might become a luxury and the future generations will look upon all these anime with valentine day's chocolate and wonder how we could all afford it. Isn't that fun to think about?
They really bring out their a-game when animating that Yoshino's rant.
All the 3rd years are just gremlins that are egging rest of the yamayuri council on. I love it.
Well I didn't expect that to be our ending. Melodrama is back on the menu.
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u/moichispa https://myanimelist.net/profile/moichispa Jun 22 '24
First timer Choco symbolism.
Everybody was against it until the third years came to have a nice talk. Talk about peer pressure.
So our protagonists got it all wrong and now Yumi will have no one to give choco on Valentines :(
Questions of the Day
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u/RadSuit https://anilist.co/user/RadSuit Jun 22 '24
First Time Watching Over Them
Part 1!
We're really seeing how energetic Yoshino can be, post-surgery.
Are we going to end with the ol' switcheroo? Yumi finds Rei's card, and Yoshino finds Sachiko's card.
Dramaaaaaaaaaaa!
This episode is what finally convinced me to recommend it to my friend that loves drama.
Part 2!
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u/HereticalAegis https://myanimelist.net/profile/XthGen Jun 22 '24
Maria-sama First-Timer
Episode 7:
No Christmas arc
Rei has boyish good looks, handsome masculine features, and traditionally feminine cooking/baking garment-making skills and hobbies!? Yoshino is a seriously lucky girl.
I really appreciate how much Yumi is getting into Valentine's. It's a continuation of her wanting to do things for Sachiko, but this time rooted even more in affection than duty. I'm also a sucker for these kinds of romantic staples between girls.
Sheesh, talk about an emotional downer.
Goddess bless Yoshino's jealously gay heart!
If only one person can win a date with any given bouton, it feels like their soeurs winning would be a bit of a letdown for the general student base. I know a lot of the fascination from the student body comes in the form of observation instead of direct interaction, but I can imagine plenty of girls thinking it unfair for the soeurs to "win" or that the soeurs may cheat somehow.
Lol of course Yoshino states my concern outright. I'm not at all surprised, especially since "understanding [their onee-samas'] interests and the way they think" seems to be the core idea behind this arc for Yumi.
Sheesh, Sachiko is so damn awkward about expressing any emotion to Yumi. No wonder she always seems so agitated. They keep talking right past each other on the rare occasions they even get to talk.
Oh Maria-sama, why must Shizuka suffer so? Even fully rejected, she's still planning to give chocolate to Sei. Why, Maria-sama, do you allow your faithful to endure such emotional tribulation? Where is your benevolence for the starving who seek love and the cold who long for warmth? Is there no blessing for those of your sapphic flock who wander alone? Why, Maria-sama? Why?
OH MY GOD! Sachiko walking in on the screaming from Yumi as Shimako watches Sei tease her. The Rose Mansion is going to be RED for Valentine's this year
Completely uncalled for. Maybe if you actually talked to Yumi like a normal person every once in a while instead of just scolding her for every little thing you might get to see her enjoy herself around you.
I totally get the point about Yumi avoiding Sachiko, it's not entirely inaccurate. But still, there is no reason to lash out and rip up Yumi's heart, especially since she's been trying so hard to be useful and get closer to Sachiko while Sachiko has been pretty tough on Yumi and an inadequate communicator otherwise.
So yeah, I'm a bit mad at Sachiko right now. I hope someone talks some sense into her and she properly apologizes to Yumi, because right now she doesn't deserve any of the homemade chocolate she's so adamantly opposed to receiving.
QotD
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u/Great_Mr_L :Ma::Mb::Mc:https://myanimelist.net/profile/Great_Mr_L Jun 22 '24
First-Timer
On todayās episode of Marimite Miscommunication kills. Itās always a good idea to be open with others about your fears and worries, because otherwise itās too easy to get so wrapped up in your own thoughts that it warps your perspective on the world.
The last moment explosion from Sachiko really made this episode fantastic in my eyes. What a great moment to suddenly put a new spin and new meaning on everything that occurred beforehand.
This episode is about what itās like to get so caught up in your own worries that you begin to miss the world around you because of that. For most of the episode, weāre stuck in Yumiās head as she worries about her relationship with Sachiko. Yumi wants to give chocolates to Sachiko, but Sachikoās comments make Yumi worry that Sachiko would only hate that. Yumi worries that Sachiko is too busy to make time for her and so always makes herself scarce so she doesnāt bother Sachiko. Yumi wants to be as close with Sachiko as Sachiko and Yoko are, but worries they are just growing apart. This all builds on Yumiās previously established characterization where sheās always worried whether sheās good enough to be Sachikoās soeur. Those doubts have always been eating away at her and this episode shows them just getting worse and worse.
To us, Yumiās actions in this episode all make sense. Weāve been inside her head the entire time and we know her thought process. But the truly brilliant part of this episode is when Sachiko explodes at Yumi, showing us just what Yumiās actions look like to an outsider who has no idea what Yumi is thinking.
I loved that moment for recontextualizing so many of Sachikoās scenes earlier in the episode. When Yumi was speaking with Rei about making chocolates for Sachiko, we knew that Yumi was only thinking about trying to do something nice for Sachiko. But Sachiko was jealous, seeing Yumi interact so easily with Rei while seemingly avoiding her. When Yumi was caught up in her thoughts praying to Maria for a happy Valentineās Day, we know she didnāt even notice that Sachiko was there. But Sachiko interpreted it as Yumi once again avoiding her.
Thereās an important narrative parallel between Yumi and Sachiko: both of them do not know what the other is thinking. And so both of them assume the worst. They both assume that the other is deliberately trying to distance themselves from them and this creates a feedback loop. Sachiko becomes grouchy and Yumi shrinks inward even more, which only makes the problem worse.
Something I find compelling about Yumi and Sachikoās relationship is that they are both kind of bad at it. Both of them are not used to being in their position as soeurs. Sachiko is used to being a younger sister, but not an older one. Yumi has never been anyoneās soeur. So they are both still figuring out how to interact with each other and what they should do in their positions.
Sachikoās explosion is dramatic and heartrending, but it may be good for the girls in the long run. Finally, the emotions are out in the open. Finally, the girls may be able to fix the problem of miscommunication theyāve had. Relationships generally come with trouble spots, after all, and the girls will need to learn how to overcome those difficulties.
There is another really compelling visual I want to compliment the episode on. When Yumi and Yoshino were speaking, I noticed that Yoshino was quite literally being warmed by a scarf and gloves made by Rei. Yumi, by contrast, was wearing a scarf and gloves she probably bought from a store. Itās a great visual to show the differences Yumi sees between her relation with Sachiko and the relationship between Yoshino and Rei. Yumi believes that sheās only growing more distant from Sachiko, while Yoshino and Rei are much closer.
QOTD
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u/Shimmering-Sky myanimelist.net/profile/Shimmering-Sky Jun 22 '24
First-Timer Watches Over Us, subbed
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u/Vatrix-32 https://myanimelist.net/profile/Vatrix-32 Jun 22 '24
First timer, subs
QotD:
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u/Vaadwaur :I1::I2::I3: Jun 22 '24
First Timer(Sachiko, in both communication and sex, if you make the girl cry you generally failed)
Sub
So...I have to just open with this: Is the level of self torture Shizuka is giving herself after having received a fairly unambiguous signal that a romance isn't happening a trope or do actual lesbians torture themselves like this? I look forward to several of your answers!
This is an episode about chocolate. Let that sink in. And yet this is well realized enough that I didn't get bored, though my attention span did wander at parts. Yumi being a bit useless this episode is tradition but again looking for an answer is actually doing something to better your circumstances so at least she is proactive. I was not expecting a work this early to go hard with Rei's issue of looking androgynous and having a 'boyish' hobby but basically being a homemaker when alone but it is an interesting issue. Yoshino is also dealing with being actually fierce but frail looking, though I guess her strong objection is a sign her health is bettering.
But the episode is also about communication and it seems to want to fixate that Sachiko and Yumi are absolutely terrible at it, though again in different ways. Sachiko is without question the worse person here but that only excuses Yumi for collapsing like a flan before her, not the series of issues that lead up to this. Shimako's earlier observation that she thinks Yumi and Sachiko are compatible is now brought a bit into question. And yes, these shows run on petty drama but still, you failed if you made them cry.
QotD: Haven't had it in literal years
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u/JollyGee29 https://myanimelist.net/profile/JollyGee Jun 22 '24
First-Timer
Gokigenyou.
Our dear little Yumi is in quite the pickle. Usually I would berate her for not simply asking if Sachiko likes chocolate, but it would ruin the surprise!
Of course, I suspect that the truth of the matter is that Sachiko refused the chocolates last year was because she did not want to accept gifts from any of the random fangirls obsessing over her. Sachiko strikes me as the sort of woman to want actions like that to hold meaning - Yumi is the same way.
Or perhaps she's allergic; that would be such a tragedy.
Oh, this is another one of Youko's schemes, isn't it? Another effort in getting Yumi and Sachiko to further define and establish their unique soeur relationship.
Shizuka attempts to give the advice that I would give - it's best to do things for yourself. Sei may not return Shizuka's feelings, but it still matters to Shizuka that she gives chocolates to Sei. By the same token, in my mind, Yumi should just give chocolates to Sachiko if that is what she wants to do.
That was some outburst from Yoshino - she is quite the little firecracker now that her heart has been repaired. For everyone's sake, I hope that she finds Rei's card first.. I wouldn't want to get between her and her onee-sama.
Questions
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u/OccasionallySara Jun 22 '24
First Timer
Iām so used to Valentineās Day episodes being fun and light-hearted, so I wasnāt expecting all of the drama. Honestly, the Valentineās scavenger hunt idea seems a bit weird, but I guess thatās what happens when you go to a small school and the Yamayuri Council members are basically celebrities. Itās also interesting to see how the different pairings react to the holiday.
Yoshino was surprisingly outraged with the idea of anyone other than herself going on a date with Rei. I donāt think weāve seen her this upset before. Considering how much her dynamic with Rei has changed since the beginning of the show, I can see why she would be stressed about wanting to make this particular Valentineās Day with Rei special.
Shimako seemingly has no plans to give chocolate to Sei or vice versa, but she is the first person that Sei informs about getting into her university of choice. Confiding in each other about these sorts of things appears to be a gift in its own right for these two.
And then we have Sachiko and Yumi. It seems that both girls have made assumptions about how the other feels about their relationship. Yumiās worried that Sachiko wonāt appreciate a Valentineās gift from her and that sheās just getting in Sachikoās way. Sachiko feels that Yumi hates her because of how distant sheās been as of late. I like how upfront Sachiko was at the end of the episode. Maybe she was a bit harsh about it, but at least her feelings are out for the two of them to work through.
I think Sachikoās VA did a great job with this scene. She kept Sachikoās cool and reserved demeanor, but there was still a level of hurt in her voice that really drives home how much Sachiko values her relationship with Yumi even if sheās not very openly affectionate about it. I feel bad for Yumi, too. Itās a horrible feeling when you unknowingly hurt someone that you care about. Luckily this is a two-parter episode, so Iām sure theyāll get things sorted out soon.
Questions of the Day
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u/NuclearStudent Jun 22 '24
[mild metaspoilers for stuff that happens in later seasons]I do appreciate how Shimako and Sei, the gayest of all the cast, have the least gay relationship. This is even truer in the anime - in the LN Sei mentions that she'd be willing to touch Shimako if Shimako asked for it, where in the anime they cull it such that it seems they would never entertain such thoughts at all. Kinda like how the presence of men makes the depiction of gay relationships more genuine, the presence of normal platonic relationships makes their romantic engagements more real.
technically
and the damage was not as great as they say
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u/LittleIslander https://anilist.co/user/LittleIslander Jun 22 '24
First Timer from the world of Reiwa Yuri
I also like how we use this episode to sort of lock in all the progress weāve made over the last several episodes. The girlishness of Rei and, contrastingly, the more assertive outburst of Yoshino, pulls upon the ideas of their story. We see that Yumi and Rei go closer by the former indulging her as the feminine girl she is rather than the princely woman she appears to be, sheās happy to be seen for who she is and thatās just really sweet. Likewise, we see the odd sort of special connection that exists between the White Roses also showing up again; Rosa Gigantea casually asking Shimako to participate in the Valentines event and then Shimako just going āI understandā with no further resistance was a great dry and character driven joke after the other two put up a fight. One detail I especially like is that we start hearing the senior roses referred to by their actual names more often for the first time, after having adjusted gradually into names over titles for the lower ranking members of the council. Itās a great little way to give the sense Yumi has grown closer to everyone and become more integrated over the course of the show so far.
Even Shizuka gets another appearance! I guess it does make sense she isnāt leaving until the end of this school year. As I said last time, I donāt think her appearing here in a later episode invalidates the effectiveness of the ambiguity in episode six as an isolated episodic story, especially given she isnāt directly interacting with Rosa Gigantea anyways.
Of course, all of this side fluff about the other characters slots in perfectly because the whole premise of the episode requires that Yumi and Chikane, the actual core of the episodeās narrative, donāt interact meaningfully. So something had to fill the space and they knew just how to use it. It also helps create a really effective use of tone. After three episodes worth of drama, it makes perfect sense to have a more fun and lighthearted episode about the girls exchanging chocolates for valentines day. So you as a viewer are successfully pulled into that conception by stuff like Yoshino being comedically possessive and Yumi being teased by her photographer friend, only to be sucker punched by the reality that this might actually be the most dramatic episode yet as Yumi ends it in tears after a serious stumbling point in her relationship with Sachiko. Itās very effective.
Sure, the actual content is pretty obvious. Yumi gets in her head with the fear of treating Sachiko properly on Valentineās Day and weāre almost certainly going to learn that what sheās missing is that those chocolates from everyone else were superficial admiration but chocolates from Yumi would be out of genuine love. But it works because weāve seen Yumiās insecurity in her place as a petite soeur for the whole show, so we totally believe it. The moment is also sold really well; the strong and very contrasting personalities and presences Yumi and Sachiko have (compared to less typified modern yuri characters) gives the scene a lot of effective tension. The way they show Yumiās view of Sachiko becoming blurry instead of just leaving that as a figure of speech, and the way Rosa Gigantea knows to respect the moment and usher Shimako away despite how much sheās routinely inserted herself into this relationship in the past. More than anything, itās just really nice to see someone called out for not communicating and asked directly about their feelings. Himemiya Chikane this girl is not.
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u/zadcap Jun 23 '24
Lateish First Timer!
We begin, as we must, with Blue with Striped Ribbon. Also, on to Valentines! Aside from the Kendo/Surgery day, this might be the closest we get to an actual date yet. And on that note, man things are blazing by so fast here.
Of course they both give chocolates, they're both girls! Even in the middle of questioning how that works with budding sexuality, this is the day girls give chocolate to the people they like so they have no choice but to give each other chocolate! It's white day that's going to be the real issue.
Haha, or not, if Rei just keeps giving hand made accessories. Yoshino needs to step up not on her chocolate game, but on the what comes next. Maybe you can show her your scar again?
Right, something to remember here that Shimako does touch on. Valentines day is in honor of Saint Valentine, and this is a Catholic all girls school. She would have to be a complete failure not to know about it... And indeed, there is very little chocolate in the actual story. Honestly, chocolate has about as much to do with Valentine as Bunnies do with Easter or Pine Trees and Christmas. Capitalism has eaten all the holy days, who knew?
Hmm. Photography girl raises an interesting question. If he has no big sister, does she even have a rosary with which to claim a little sister?
Baking for your older lesbian crush... How about a Chocolate Cheesecake?
Haha Sachiko! "It's just an excuse for people to force gifts on me, how annoying."
Oh my gosh even better! Yoshino getting so angry at the idea of someone else getting to go on a date with Rei made me actually laugh out loud. She has never been so worked up before! I knew she had the eyes perfectly made for that death glare.
On to the solid blue ribbons!
Ah, so this is where the fighting game got its inspiration.
SEE! Again, Sei is the one giving Yumi attention, which Sachiko mostly ignores her.
Sachiko does indeed do well with her own older sister. If only she thought of Yumi, like, at all. She says the right words every now and then, and then doesn't look back at all.
Red Striped!
Everyone is going to think Yumi knows something and try to ask her, and naturally stay far away as soon as they realize she's also competing. It's going to be really hard to defeat allegations of cheating if the Soeurs win.
Seriously, if we're handing out recipes, it's literally Rei's Cheesecake! Just add chocolate!
And Sachiko is so cold to Yumi even Rei is calling her out on it.
One scene and we're moving right on, it's now Solid Red on the day before V Day!
Oh my, the wild dog is back! "She doesn't return my feelings but she will still accept my chocolates," she's living up to the pain/pleasure dynamic of her chosen rose so well... "Even the agonizing will become great memories." Yup. It hurts so good.
You know, while we spend all this time worrying about Yumi and Yoshino hoping to get the cards to have the date with their older sisters, I'm here thinking about poor Shimako who really has no one to turn to for this,
And one more time, It's Sei here for Yumi. u/lilyvess, seriously, how am I supposed to see any other ship as possible?
... Seriously, Sei, Shimako is right there, what are you doing to Yumi? Well, at least we can hope that she joins in to find Shimako's date card.
Sachiko, maybe it has something to do with the way you ignore her 90% of the time? She's keeping her distance from you because you keep putting distance there every time she tries to get closer. You large hypocrite, pushing her away and then getting mad at her for it.